Once you have a clear picture of what you want in a sugar daddy-sugar baby relationship, it is time to look at a few sugar dating sites. Although there are literally dozens of sites to choose from, it can be quite a challenge to find the ones that are worth spending time and money on.
Paid or free sites?
In the course of your searching, you will come across quite a few sites that offer free membership. The opportunity to meet a potential match at no cost might seem like an attractive proposition, but free sites tend to attract low quality clientele, among both sugar daddies and sugar babies. With a few exceptions, free sugar dating sites are almost entirely populated by fictitious user accounts and bots. Needless to say, you will likely end up wasting a lot of time on such sites–time that could be put to better use elsewhere.
With pay sites, you can expect to pay anywhere from $30 to a hundred dollars or more for an annual membership. The cost can be pretty steep to be sure, but it may be worth it when you consider that the high cost of membership serves as a sort of virtual ‘barrier’ that turns away the rabble and makes the clientele more exclusive. Just like in a VIP club in the real world, the high cost of entry to paid sugar dating sites tends to filter out casual users that aren’t really serious about finding a sugar daddy.
Paid sugar daddy sites also tend to place a high premium on customer satisfaction, with fictitious accounts and other fraudulent activities taken down as soon as they are detected. The absence of bots also enhances the reputability and trustworthiness of the site.
Because of the cost involved in signing up at a sugar dating site, most prospective sugar daddies may have to limit themselves to one or two sites. However, it would actually benefit you to sign up for as many sugar dating sites as reasonably possible. This will enable you to become familiar with the process quickly, and help increase your chances of landing the right mate. You may therefore want to sign up at a few reputable free sites to augment your membership in the paid sites.
Checking the reputability of a site
After checking out a few different websites, you should be able to get a feel for those that are reliable and trustworthy and those that are best avoided. Poor quality sites tend to attract poor quality users as well, which are typically from women offering escort services or nude photos instead of being genuinely interested in a sugar dating arrangement. Of course, there is nothing stopping you from setting up a quick hookup if that is what you want. But if you are actually are looking for a sugar baby instead of a casual sexual encounter, you will have better luck at a reputable sugar dating website.
Setting up your profile
You will naturally have to set up a profile for each and every site you sign up for, although you should be able to use the same profile in all your various dating sites. When putting together your profile, include any unique or interesting details about yourself, but try to be as concise as possible. Keep in mind that most women who are seriously looking for a sugar daddy won’t want to spend too much time poring over dozens of profiles, so it is important to grab their attention as quickly as possible.
When filling up your profile, you will be expected to provide a number of personal details including your age, physical appearance, education, location, personal interests, and so on. In some cases, you may even be asked to provide details about your occupation and income.
Now, it is up to you to be as forthright–or as secretive–as you wish with regard to the information that you share. Generally speaking however, you will want to be as accurate as possible, resisting the urge to exaggerate or make inaccurate claims about your age, physical appearance, or income. Any attempts at deception or misrepresentation will be exposed sooner or later, and you could be hurting your chances of establishing a good relationship with a potential sugar baby.
Your profile pics
One of the most common mistakes prospective sugar daddies make is posting an old photo of themselves. You will understandably want to make as good impression as possible, but posting a photo from twenty years ago isn’t the best way to go about it. Be confident enough about yourself and your current appearance to post an updated photo. Remember that sugar babies generally expect to meet older men, so you really aren’t fooling anyone by posting that old college yearbook photo of yourself!
If the option to do so is provided, it is also a good idea to post as many different photos as possible in your profile. You want to present yourself as an active and vibrant gentleman with a broad range of interests and a fresh and vibrant outlook in life regardless of your age. This will also give any potential responders a more complete picture by which they can form an impression of you.
Many sugar dating sites provide you with the opportunity to specify the type of sugar baby you are looking for via a set of specific criteria. For example, you may be able to restrict potential responders to single 20-something women with no children, who don’t smoke, who drink only moderately, and so on. This is a good feature to have in a sugar dating website, and you would do well to take advantage of it. This allows you to weed out potential mismatches automatically, and ensure that you have a much more favorable pool of candidates to choose from.
Signing up at a sugar dating website is the first important step in finding a suitable match. Be honest in emphasizing your good qualities and downplaying any negative traits. When you do this, you will have laid the groundwork for what could be a rewarding arrangement with the sugar baby that you deserve.