When you’re brand new to the sugar bowl, it’s understandable that your main focus would be on attracting interest in general, especially online. However, once you’ve had your first few conversations and maybe even a meet-up or two, you’ll no doubt want to know how to finetune your focus a little bit. The following pointers are how the most popular, sought after sugar babies attract the highest caliber sugar daddies. With a little careful image-tweaking, you can too.
Upgrade Your Photos
Of course, you know photos are important when it comes to online dating, but you may not really understand just how important they are. In fact, a person’s first impression really can be made or broken by the profile owner’s photo choices alone, so it’s time to take a second look at yours. Are they blurry, badly lit, or otherwise the type of photo that makes it hard to see what someone really looks like? Are they taken from too close up or too far away? Are they lackluster or uninteresting? Replace them with better ones ASAP and you’ll almost definitely see an uptick in messages from truly great daddies.
Emulate the Lifestyle
What do you think of when you think of the sugar life? If you’re like most sugar babies you picture all the trappings of the luxe life. Think gorgeous clothes, amazing shoes, posh spaces, and the very finest things money can buy. If you’re already living that life, make sure it shows. Post photos of yourself looking your best and spending time in gorgeous locations. If you’re not quite there yet, there are lots of ways to improvise. Make sure that your online image is curated in such a way that it helps potential sugar daddies see you fitting seamlessly into their world.
Put Your Best Self Forward
Legendary sugar relationships that are everything they should be are based on honesty and integrity above all else, so it’s definitely important to be yourself. However, you also want to make sure you’re presenting the very best version of what you have to offer. Again, start with your pictures. Work on identifying and playing up your very best features. Then treat the rest of your profile to a little sprucing up. Great sugar daddies are looking for more than just a pretty face, so think about what sets you apart as a person. Do you have a passion in life that you’re actively pursuing? Do you speak multiple languages? Are you well-read, artistically inclined, or next-level excellent at just about anything? Don’t be afraid to start looking for sugar daddies, just start showing it off.
Know What You Want
The best sugar daddies know exactly what they’re looking for in a sugar arrangement, and you can bet they’re looking for sugar babies that are the same. If you’ve been exploring the sugar bowl long, your profile should already tell potential sugar daddies quite a bit about what you’re hoping to get out of any present or future relationships. However, it’s always possible that you haven’t covered everything you should have or that someone in particular may want to know more. Be communicative and open always. Too much coyness and mystery in the beginning face of a new connection tends to backfire. A really great sugar daddy could easily decide you’re too much trouble and move on without ever realizing what a great fit you actually are.
Value Your Time
It’s not just your would-be sugar daddy’s time that’s valuable. As a sugar baby, you have a lot to offer as well, so it’s important to act like it and think like it. If anyone rubs you the wrong way or you just plain aren’t feeling the connection for whatever reason, don’t be afraid to excuse yourself from the situation however you see fit. If anyone’s abusive or violates the rules of conduct on your sugaring site of choice, report him so that he doesn’t waste another sugar baby’s time.
At the end of the day, attracting amazing sugar daddies is all about recognizing yourself as a person of value and mastering the various ways you can project that out to the rest of the world. Start the process today and it won’t be long before you’re sugaring with the best of them.